Home Articles posted byContributor

Search

Categories

Tags

One of the most vital prerequisites of healing and recovery, of being open to growth, is a willingness to be open to looking at anything, and everything, from a different perspective. As long as we are stuck in a rigid perspective on any issue, we are like the blind man who thinks the elephant is a snake because all he can feel is the trunk.
Too often people emphasize the negative interpretation of surrender, meaning either cowardice or simply giving up. In the context of recovery, the word surrender is a powerful and hopeful word. Nobody surrenders to die. Surrender is about life.
Many people who quit drinking or using think all they need to do is participate in a treatment program and show up at a supportive recovery meeting now and again. They assume that all will be well ... that everything has been "fixed." This is rarely ever the case. Recovery is not just about abstinence, it is about doing the work it takes to be able to live a life that is "happy, joyous, and free."
Most people in recovery go back to the stuff that they did before they became addicted. Fishing, baseball, social events, socializing with friends, going to movies, and so on. Whatever you did before you started self medicating, those are likely things that you will return to someday.
God made the universe in a way that didn’t leave things to be a secret. Everything is either in harmony or out of harmony with the principles, laws and values of natural law. Inside every human being is the innate knowledge of your own well-being – knowledge of how to be a well human being. You inherently know what to do. The only thing remaining is choice.
Step Six is going to take recovery to another level. Step One through Step Three is like finding a puzzle box. You really don’t know what’s in it but you’d like to see if you can put the puzzle together. Step Four and Step Five represent opening the puzzle up and dumping all the pieces on the table. If you have done a thorough Fourth Step there are many more pieces on the table than you thought there would be and this realization can be overwhelming.
Humility means that we are teachable; we know who we are in our relationship to a Higher Power; making an honest list of our assets and our shortcomings and recognizing both. It is recognition of the gifts God has given us and also the defects that make us human. If we have taken the first six steps of our recovery program seriously, we have built up the humility required to take Step Seven.
When I was in early sobriety, I imagined that there must be a certain point that people reach in recovery where they are now going to “make it.” A certain length of clean time where people are protected against the threat of relapse. Turns out this simply isn’t true. In fact, the statistics for long-term sobriety are quite frightening ‒ the drop-off rate of relapsing addicts and alcoholics doesn’t really slow down much as your length of sobriety increases. So what causes a person to relapse after experiencing a genuine sobriety? The answer is complacency.
Who are your Facebook friends? Are they the winners you want to be sticking with, or are they the old crowd you know you should be distancing yourself from? Because social media can be such a big part of our lives, revamping your online presence is as much a part of recovery as changing up the rest of your social habits.

Search

Categories

Do I Have a Problem?

Take this quick quiz to see if you need help.

Get Help and Start Your Addiction Recovery Today

Tags